Grindr and Other Dating Apps

 Two knowns: I'm a gay man. I love sex.

Even though I haven't had any of it for like 3 years. A sad truth.

I just redownloaded grindr, and am filled with trepidation.  Firstly, I opened it and the grid was filled with all hot white guys that I love - and my first thought was - is this real?  Are there really so many hot white guys within grindr grid range (currently in the suburbs of Santa Monica) - mostly families.

To quote Trump - who apparently renamed the Kennedy Center to Trump Kennedy Center - really, what has Trump done for the arts? 



Update: December 22nd - 3 days after the above paragraphs...

Deleted Grindr, and still pissed about Trump and the Kennedy Center.

Why deleted Grindr?  I want to meet people the "old fashioned" way - in person.  Why? No reason other than I'm ashamed that every man I've ever loved I've met online - be it Grindr, Manhunt (I miss the Manhunt ads in Chelsea when I moved there 10+ years ago!), bbrts.com, or Adam4Adam


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